EMOTIONAL SATISFACTION
The trick to this plan is to give your husband the emotional satisfaction he seeks from food in a reduced-calorie diet or through some other method. (Sex?) When I discovered how important the bedtime apple was to my husband, I adjusted his calorie budget to allow him 100 calories at night time. Haven’t you always found that the key to satisfying a man is being flexible?You will find that the two weeks will pass quickly, and your husband will shed pounds. If, at the end of two weeks, he hasn’t said anything, you can keep on being sneaky. К you don’t have a bathroom scale, now is the time to buy one, so you can get him to weigh in (just like Garfield) and discover his happy surprise. If he doesn’t happen to notice he’s lost weight, don’t get upset. Just keep plugging away. He will eventually.When you are ready to tell him what’s going on in a serious way, underline your love and concern rather than your ability to manipulate his diet or control his life. Don’t make yourself sound long-suffering or martyred; don’t dump on his weight problem. Act as if the diet is a bouquet of flowers you are giving him because you care.*60/243/1*